2017, Yesterday’s Tomorrow

Photo is mine. This was taken at the Hello Kitty Cafe in Singapore.

2017, I understand, has been a difficult year for most. While I am aware that a lot has suffered including most of my countrymen, I can say that 2017 has been quite a different story for me.

I almost didn’t want to publish this because it seemed insensitive to talk about all the beautiful flourishing things that happened to me last year while the rest of the world grieved and suffered. It is nearly February now. I shouldn’t be putting this anymore.

But I had to.

Only because I need to declare to all the world, even if no one listens to this, that God has sustained me, provided for everything I needed and wanted, has blessed me greatly, because He decided to prove to me who He said He is. It is my prayer that by declaring what God has done in my life, you would come to know Him too, and would want to experience Him also.

Travel and Fun

The first month of 2017, I had to be in Masbate. My beloved grandmother passed away in late December of 2016 so we had to be in Masbate for her funeral. She was one of the most intelligent persons I’ve ever had the pleasure of knowing in my entire life. That’s why even when she passed away, we still decided to visit one of the most beautiful places there – Buntod Reef Marine Sanctuary – after she has been put on her final resting place. My Lola was a woman of common sense. And it was our way of saying goodbye to her beautiful soul. It was like she was walking the white sandbar with us.

I remember talking to her about a certain guy the year before and the complexity of that situation. You would think she would judge me for all the mistakes I did, and have a go at me for all my stupidity. But she encouraged me all the more and told me, ‘Make sure you settle this in your heart, otherwise you will carry it for the rest of your life. ‘ And that was the greatest lesson I needed to hear and would guide me from that day on and I can now say, onwards.

By June, I was making plans to travel local & abroad. I prayed to God to bring me to Hong Kong, and that if it was okay with Him, I wanted all expenses paid. And by July, He allowed me to travel to Hong Kong with my Mom, all expenses paid. And not just that! He allowed us to visit Macau too! And that trip to Macau was the most fun I’ve had so far.

By the next month, I was attending a wedding in Palawan. Experienced one of the best restaurants in town and went to El Nido, Palawan! I’ve never been rich in life. I was a breadwinner of the family for the longest time. So El Nido, Palawan was one of those places I knew I could never afford. I grew up knowing that it was one of those places here in the Philippines that could be more expensive than traveling abroad. That has now been replaced by Batanes. But it happened. God made it happen.

September came and I found myself in Singapore. Still crying as I write this just remembering how God made everything possible for me last year.

Work and Fun

Before September ended, I found myself praying to God for a different career. Can you guess what happened next? I got two job offers that I knew would dramatically change my life. And they didn’t offer to just add a few hundreds on my pay check. They were offering way more than I ever thought they would. I was so overwhelmed by all these things.

You know how you pray so hard for the longest time all of these things you want in life, but then God tells you to do something else? He tells you to focus on this first. He directs you to go through this route first, and when you’ve done everything He needed you to do, suddenly He gives you everything and just so much more?

Psalm 91 has never been so true in my life than the past year.

“Because [she] holds fast to me in love, I will deliver [her] ; I will protect [her] , because [she] knows my name. When [she] calls to me, I will answer [her] ; I will be with [her] in trouble; I will rescue [her] and honor [her] . With long life I will satisfy [her] and show [her] my salvation.” Psalms 91:14‭-‬16 ESV

I had to insert the female pronouns there because it had been so personal to me.

My prayer for everyone of you is that you learn obedience to God no matter how hard things get. I can tell you that I’ve made this decision a long time ago. I found no other way to live my life than to live in obedience to Him. I wanted to be like Isaiah who knew how to raise not just his hand, but also his heart and will to God when He asked, ‘Who shall we send?’ foreshadowing what Jesus did on the cross. I can only pray and try my best to obey the way Jesus did.

Obey now and do not delay.

Obey. Obey because as the verse said, “A thousand may fall at your side, ten thousand at your right hand, but it will not come near you.” Psalms 91:7 ESV

So the whole world can crash and burn, but if you make the Lord Most High your dwelling place, your comfort through out all the pain, suffering, confusion, and disappointment, then you will declare that He is your refuge and fortress. The God you can always trust. And He will never fail you. He will not let His holy one see decay (Psalm 16:10).

So by October, I finally have a new career. I finally got that much needed new work schedule. I finally got Friday afternoons and evenings spent with my family and friends. For the longest time in my life, I’ve not had that privilege. Finally got to experience the coffee shop I’ve been wanting to get to for the longest time. And now, I get to sit there and have the most perfect cup almost every single day. I get to go in a beautiful park and spend lovely quiet mornings there during my lunch break. Just like how I’ve always imagined my breaks will be.

By December, I had the opportunity of experiencing a real Christmas break. Something I never experienced in all the years I’ve been working. Two weeks. Break from work for two weeks. Two weeks! In December! And it’s a mandatory break! In my previous job, December has always been the busiest and the most difficult time to get some time off work. But now, it’s all different.

Fun, fun, fun.

During the Christmas break, I had a chance to explore La Union. I went surfing. I went grapepicking. Visited art galleries. Had fun walking around it’s beautiful landscape.

And as if that wasn’t enough, I even had a chance to go on a night out in Vigan –  one of, if not, the most beautifully preserved historical landmarks in my country!

Even on the very last day of the year, I was traveling and having tons of fun. 2016 was one of the most difficult years of my life — one of the most unbearable. But God saw me through. And He was so true to His promises.

God made 2017 my yesterday’s tomorrow. And for that, I am eternally grateful. And because God did that to my 2017, He made me look forward to 2018 in eager expectation. He is going to reveal something. I have a feeling He is already in the process of revealing it to me. He just knows me too well, and so wants to make sure I won’t spoil His surprise.

Have the greatest year this 2018, guys! Make sure you have all the God-approved fun this year!

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Love Of My Life

I keep thinking about where it comes from – the desire to be alone. Not as an introvert. I mean, alone in life. I don’t want to spend the rest of my life with someone else. Studies show that millennials would rather be alone than marry off. I didn’t want to consider myself a millennial. I’m a xenial but people don’t really care about that.

Of course, for all the ladies out there, there’s a lot of contributing factors to wanting to be alone, but we can sum it up in one sentence: Men are idiots! Not all, but boy, oh boy, there are a lot of them out there. Ugh! And all the ladies say amen. Put your hands in the air and wave it like you just don’t care.

As I dug deeper though, I’ve come to a conclusion that the root cause is pride, no matter what people really say. Whether they’ve been hurt, betrayed, forgotten, or anything else. Pride comes in different forms. For my part, to be honest, I take pride in being alone because it’s easier. At least, that’s how I find it. It has its own struggles, as every single person would say, but I’ve never really been married before so maybe we should just listen to those who have been in both situations. And of course, as already recorded in history, they all say the same thing. It’s easier to be single.

And then I keep making sense of a human being’s need to be with someone. We all want to be with the love of our lives. Old people say there’s no point living life without it. What with all these movies – romantic comedies, true to life love stories. We all want to be with the love of our lives. People go through all sorts of things just to find it.

So I agree with the world. We need to find the love of our lives, no matter what.

If you just look at it, it would seem Satan has succeeded in making the whole world believe the need to find that elusive one human being.

Do you see how he deceives the world? That twisting of the truth that he does? Because it is true that we need to find the love of our lives but it’s not about a human being. We, Christians, know that marriage here on earth is just suppose to model the real & true marriage – Christ’s love for his bride – the church.

I realise that there is nothing wrong with wanting to be alone but if I may ask a favor, don’t desire that for all the wrong reasons. I think that’s what I did. I hope you can agree with me that we are not designed to be alone. I’m not talking about sex here. We were not created as sexual beings so we can have sex all the time. That’s not what “sexual beings” mean.

We are not designed to be alone because our over all make up really is to be with the Love of our lives.

You want, desire, need to be with someone because you are created that way. But realise that it’s not really to be with just a human being. You are created to be with a Spiritual Being who decided to become human for a while to redeem us from all of Satan’s deceptions & hell, and to spend all eternity with you.

You and I are destined to be with the Love of our lives. You and I are destined to be with Him. His name is Jesus.

This is me saying that I found the One my heart loves. I am saying that I found the Love of my life. And I am hoping you find Him too.